The majority of people associate “teasing” with “making fun of” a woman.
This is not the case.
Instead, think of teasing a girl as giving her a SMALL BIT of what she wants… and then taking it away, making her want MORE.
There are a variety of ways to do this with texting.
Start offering her compliments if she’s used to receiving them from you… But make it a complement about yourself to give a twist.
i.e. “I couldn’t help noticing you… staring at me”
If you’re texting naughty, don’t go too overt right away, and instead do what is called “teasing the escalation.” (Find Out More About Teasing Escalation Here)
1. Make use of innuendos
Words or phrases with several meanings are known as innuendos.
When it comes to innuendos, the concept of “Plausible Deniability” is crucial.
This means you can playfully “deny” that you’re coming on to her by saying something unclear.
If she accuses you of being a perv, simply turn it around and playfully accuse HER of having dirty thoughts.
2. Create Excitement Before the Date
Building anticipation before meeting up with a girl can work wonders when the date finally happens.
Let’s pretend you’re meeting a female for coffee in the afternoon. In the morning, text her something like,
“Hmmm, I’m looking forward to you buying me coffee today… The velvety mochas are the best, and the aroma in that cafe is incredible.
This not only builds excitement, but it also excites her senses with terms like fragrance… creamy… wonderful… It starts to pique her interest.
This pre-arousal piques her interest and makes her curious about the date she’ll have with you later that day.
3.The next stage in turning a female on with text messages is to send her a message.
The flirting strategies outlined above are excellent for getting things started. However, you’ll need to go beyond jokes and sexual banter to turn a girl on over text. You must take responsibility for your own sexual desire for her at some time.
Begin by telling her how you feel about her and what you want to do with her. Let her know what it is about her that you find so appealing.
This method of expressing desire demonstrates the confidence that women seek in a man. It also communicates to her that she is free to express her own sexual desires to you.
When messaging girls, having the appropriate mindset guarantees you don’t come out as weird. Keep your admiration and wonder for the woman you’re texting alive.
Push/pull is a simple notion. A pull indicates to the woman that you like her, whilst a push indicates that you don’t like her.
When you alternate the two in a playful manner, you get flirting and a lot of sexual tension.
Remember how we discussed erecting barriers to escalation? That is what the “push” accomplishes.
Most guys “pull” the female all the time, paying her compliments and demonstrating their admiration for her.
However, if you can add a few pushes here and there, you’ll be able to produce tension.
And don’t forget: This will set you apart from every other dull and predictable guy chasing her around the clock attempting to grab her attention.